Family Life in the 18th Century

Marriage, children, economic circumstances and socialproducing items such as farm equipment, clothing and
status were closely linked during the 1700s. Thetoys were of the lower class. Not surprisingly, lower
majority of families were what the famed Englishclass children also worked inside of these factories
author Daniel Defoe termed "the middling class" orearning far less than their parents' meager wage.
the middle class, a status of family that wasChildren labored as hard as their parents, often
non-existent before the 18th century. During thecarrying heavy loads of materials or sitting at
1600s people were either wealthy and privileged orindustrial machines for countless hours inside of
utterly poor and there was no in-betweendeplorable factory conditions. Had the term
whatsoever. The rise of the middle class began"sweatshop" been coined at that time, then it would
during the 18th century and its impact upon familyindeed have described the factories where these
was enormous.lower class families labored.
Women and men of the upper classes did not marryThe middle and upper classes however did not set
for love. Instead, they married strictly for financialfoot inside of a factory. Children of the middle class
and social reasons. Women who wished to continuebegan to attend school for the first time in history.
living within a wealthy household simply did not marryOnly famers' children took time away from school for
a man of the middle or lower class. A self-respectingsignificant periods in order to assist with the sowing
gentleman didn't even consider marrying a womanand harvesting of crops during the summer and
from a poor family. It was unlikely she would possessautumn months.
the social graces and dowry required to marry intoThe dominant household figure was the father. It
such a society. Moreover, rumors would abound as towas he who determined whether or not his wife
why a wealthy young man would wed a girl of suchcould work outside the home or whether or not his
poor means. Perhaps he had gotten her "in the familychildren were to attend school. He owned all of the
way" and was inclined to do right by her? Suchfamily's property and money. Divorce was
humiliation could never be visited upon his family.exceedingly rare since women who left their
The middle class on the other hand could marryhusbands had no viable means of survival. Mothers
whomever they liked. It wasn't sensible for ausually remained at home, keeping a hearth and
middle-class women to marry a poor man since herproducing several children. Their job was not an easy
children would be raised in poverty, yet if herone. Mothers cleaned the house, made clothing for
happiness depended upon it, her family was unlikelytheir families by hand, cooked, minded the children,
to intervene. There was no need to marry for socialtended a garden and generally tried to please their
status or wealth since the middle class did nothusbands. Womens' social status was well below that
possess either.of mens' and they seldom questioned any of their
Yet the concept of the middle class was still one ofhusbands' decisions.
privilege. Up until the 18th century childhood, like theYet many upper and middle class families were quite
middle class, did not exist. The lower class workedcontent during the 18th century. The Industrial
hard to eke out a living and their children wereRevolution generated excitement about new
expected to work alongside them. School was atechnologies meant to make life easier. Marriages
privilege that only the upper class could afford. Andwere usually harmonious, children were treated kindly
well into the 18th century childhood still did not existand a belief in God was extremely important. The
for the lower class.inherent goodness in people provided a solid
The Industrial Revolution set into motion incrediblebackbone for families and produced a law-abiding and
changes in 1700s society. The vast majority ofcivilized society in which families flourished.
people who worked inside of the new factories